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Title: Would you still ride if...
Post by: CannedIce on December 02, 2009, 08:17:25 AM
...you just found out you were pregnant? Our UPS driver and I were talking about that for some reason yesterday and I thought it appropriate with Somegirl's news!

I'm talking more about the very beginning stages of pregnancy as the later stages would get challenging with a big belly in the way ;) What about after the baby is born? What are your thoughts?

For the record, I'm not pregnant or thinking about becoming pregnant anytime soon, I just think it makes for an interesting discussion.



Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: kp on December 02, 2009, 08:32:53 AM
well, there's a whole lot of factors that go into that question. Such as: how experienced
a rider you are, how aggressively you ride, straights or twisities, and what time of day you
plan on riding, and how you feel and if it was a high risk pregnancy.


I think I'd still ride if it was during the day during the week. Straights and a few mild
twisites but not aggressively. Country or back roads and not in the city. And only if I felt well and rested.   [moto]


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: duqette on December 02, 2009, 08:41:41 AM
Based partially on my own experience, and on the reassurances of my (former) Sister in Law, who is an OB doc, any traumatic experience that's severe enough to harm the fetus is probably going to kill you, too.

That little sucker is really well protected in there!

She told me a story about a woman who was in a car accident out in the boonies, got out of the car and walked a couple miles to get help. With fractured hip bones.  :o She was pregnant. And the baby was fine, born full term, no complications.

The idea that pregnant women are somehow fragile is mostly a myth leftover from more patriarchal times. Caveats of course for "high risk" pregnancies.

What I mean to say is, no need to change your riding style just 'cause you're 4 weeks pregnant, assuming you ride within your skill level, ATGATT, etc etc. If you're usually an excessively risky rider, well, that's another conversation....



Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: mstevens on December 02, 2009, 10:20:16 AM
Based partially on my own experience, and on the reassurances of my (former) Sister in Law, who is an OB doc, any traumatic experience that's severe enough to harm the fetus is probably going to kill you, too.

That little sucker is really well protected in there!

She told me a story about a woman who was in a car accident out in the boonies, got out of the car and walked a couple miles to get help. With fractured hip bones.  :o She was pregnant. And the baby was fine, born full term, no complications.

The idea that pregnant women are somehow fragile is mostly a myth leftover from more patriarchal times. Caveats of course for "high risk" pregnancies.

What I mean to say is, no need to change your riding style just 'cause you're 4 weeks pregnant, assuming you ride within your skill level, ATGATT, etc etc. If you're usually an excessively rider, well, that's another conversation....



I'm never going to be a mom, but I don't think it can be put much better than this.

The decision should be based more on the realities and responsibilities of parenthood than on pregnancy. My wife didn't yet ride back when she was pregnant, but she did race cars. I have a video of her 7 months pregnant beating the pants off of an entire field of autocrossers (including me, sadly) and winning a very expensive set of tires. The issues and concerns at the time were the same as they would be now that we have a 14 year-old. For that matter, my own driving in that event involved exactly the same issues that hers did, just as my riding involves the same as hers does these days. If she were to become pregnant now (which would involve a couple of medical miracles), she'd probably stop riding when her gear didn't fit properly, when she had trouble getting on or off the bike, or something like that rather than simply because of being pregnant.


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: somegirl on December 02, 2009, 10:42:49 AM
I'm still riding, I'm currently in my 6th week.  I expect I will stop when my gear no longer fits comfortably.

I live in the twisties, so I am riding in the twisties, but I am already taking a bit easier pace and only doing it to commute now, rather than riding on the weekends when the squids are out.

I'm also still riding my bicycle (plan on doing it as long as I can) but I am already taking a break from doing the epic climbs/descents because of the risk and my energy levels are down.  Instead I'll stick to easier rolling hills.  At some point I'll have to switch to my more upright bike with a lower frame, but right now the road bike still feels good. [thumbsup]


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: Qwack on December 02, 2009, 07:57:22 PM
As others have said, it really depends on what you're comfortable with...and what your doctors say.

For me, I didn't ride more so because it was already winter and cold, by the time the nice weather came around I had nice size bump going...although, I did take a ride on the back of my husbands bike just down the block and back...he got a new bike and I just had to go for 1 ride before he turned it solo.

As for now both my husband and I still ride, I hit a deer back in May which was very scary...I am thankful I wasn't seriously injured...I am still going to ride, and my husband still rides...our son who just turned 3 has a yamaha pw50 he will be riding come this spring...he loves to sit on our bikes and start them up always has...must be in the genes  [thumbsup]


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: CannedIce on December 03, 2009, 07:48:27 AM
This is so awesome! My initial feeling was to say no, I wouldn't ride if I became pregnant, but hearing all of your opinions and experiences it seems like it wouldn't be so bad. The UPS guys was saying to never stop riding even after I have kids! I have heard others say they stopped as soon as their child was born. It is true that it should be what you are comfortable with and I am warming up to the idea. Although, I won't even be thinking about starting a family for at least 5 more years. Need more time to play :)



Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: badgalbetty on December 03, 2009, 07:33:35 PM
If I were to become pregnant by some divine intervention( [laugh] )I would never stop riding. In fact If I were to become pregnant I would not stop laughing!!

I say ride whilst you can,enjoy every mile of it,for in a few short weeks the leathers wont fit.

Then I'll go on a diet and well trade for pickles,cheesecake and fried banana pancakes with oodles of syrup.

Ride safely,but above all enjoy it.

Be well
 
badgalbetty.


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: somegirl on December 03, 2009, 07:59:50 PM
Can I get fried pickle pancake flavored ice cream? ;D


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: zooom on December 04, 2009, 02:21:43 AM
Can I get fried pickle pancake flavored ice cream? ;D

sounds like a fine exploratory road trip on the bike to find that and demarcate the location in Mr I's GPS for the late night pregancy cravings during the 3rd trimester!!


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: DucaChic on December 04, 2009, 03:41:20 AM
Yes I would and did when carrying my son.

At first I was uncertain, but my OB said the baby is very well protected and that an accident that was severe enough to harm the baby would probably be fatal for me too (no different than riding any other day).

The cold and nasty weather came 6 months later and I put the bike away for Winter before it ever became uncomfortable to ride. Next Spring I was back riding again.

It is a personal decision and one that both expecting parents must support.


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: dolci on December 04, 2009, 06:09:46 AM
I got my Monster when my daughter was 7.  She thinks it's totally cool and brags to friends; she drags them into the garage and asks to pose on it all the time; she's even been trying my helmet on.

Maybe I'm more conservative than I would be if I didn't have a child that relies and depends on me but I don't think that it will make me stop riding...at least it isn't in my plans.  Maybe I also carry more insurance than I would if I didn't ride so that I (and my daughter) would be taken care of something happened.


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: badgalbetty on December 04, 2009, 06:52:07 PM
Can I get fried pickle pancake flavored ice cream? ;D

Sure can............this is America! [laugh]

Also don't forget to add melted Cabdbury's chocolate lightly drizzled over your icecream! Yum

Be well

BGB.


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: azoomm on December 06, 2009, 09:56:08 AM
I have two daughters - ages 15 and 12.  I didn't ride when I was pregnant with them - it wasn't comfortable.  I mean, I had weird cramping each time I got on the bike - so I stopped.  In my opinion, it's like with anything else... if it's not working for you, don't do it. 

Common Sense applies  ;D


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: somegirl on December 15, 2009, 12:35:26 PM
The worst part about riding while pregnant so far...

You know how uncomfortable that V-twin can be when you really have to pee?
Well, the pregnancy hormones make me have to pee ALL the time.


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: Stella on December 16, 2009, 09:57:40 AM
If I were to become pregnant by some divine intervention( [laugh] )I would never stop riding. In fact If I were to become pregnant I would not stop laughing!!
Then I'll go on a diet and well trade for pickles,cheesecake and fried banana pancakes with oodles of syrup.

 [laugh]   and      [puke]

Can I get fried pickle pancake flavored ice cream? ;D

And another:     [puke]


 ;D


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: CannedIce on December 16, 2009, 10:52:14 AM
The worst part about riding while pregnant so far...

You know how uncomfortable that V-twin can be when you really have to pee?
Well, the pregnancy hormones make me have to pee ALL the time.


LOL good to know! Just don't go on any long rides and you should be okay  [moto]


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: somegirl on January 07, 2010, 04:59:30 PM
I think I've only got about a week left of riding. :(  It's getting quite difficult to zipper up my jacket over my chest, especially with my heated liner in.


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: badgalbetty on January 08, 2010, 06:21:30 AM
if that is all that is stopping you from riding,have an insert made........Get a zipper to match theone of your jacket, add it to both sides of a 2 inch strip of leather and zip it into your jacket, that why you can ride for another month or two.
Hormones are great arn't they. For some reason my hormones have been going beserk this week,and no I am not pregnant........that would require a boyfriend plus a whole bunch of other stuff.hahahahahahaha
Try the insert trick IF you feel comfortable riding and good luck. You rock! [thumbsup]


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: CannedIce on January 08, 2010, 11:29:34 AM
if that is all that is stopping you from riding,have an insert made........Get a zipper to match theone of your jacket, add it to both sides of a 2 inch strip of leather and zip it into your jacket, that why you can ride for another month or two.
Hormones are great arn't they. For some reason my hormones have been going beserk this week,and no I am not pregnant........that would require a boyfriend plus a whole bunch of other stuff.hahahahahahaha
Try the insert trick IF you feel comfortable riding and good luck. You rock! [thumbsup]


Glad I'm not the only one whose hormones are out of control for no reason lol. I have been unusually crabby and man does it put a damper on things lol.


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: somegirl on January 08, 2010, 11:47:21 AM
Thanks for the suggestion!  I also might be able to make it a little longer if I lose a layer and also don't put my wallet and phone etc. in my pockets.


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: mcgalinmd on January 13, 2010, 05:43:09 AM
I know it's not as strenuous as riding, but I was lifeguarding until 6 hours before I had my child!  I say ride until you can't fit in the gear....then let nature take it's course.

But remember - car seats don't fit on motorcycles.  Exactly the reason I stopped at ONE kid.  [cheeky]


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: somegirl on February 21, 2010, 09:26:23 AM
Last weekend was my last ride for a while, was barely possible to fasten my overpants all the way.  MrI and I decided to make a date of it and did a 2-up (3-up?) ride on the XCountry.

I already miss it for commuting, having to take the car and hike half an hour from the parking garage turned my typically 1.5 hour commute to Berkeley into a 2.5 hour one-way commute last week, luckily I don't have to go there all the time.

At least I can still ride my bicycle for a while. :)



Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: No_Normale on March 01, 2010, 03:09:47 PM
Somegirl-
Glad you made it this long riding! Also awesome to hear you made a date out of the last ride definately something to remember after the baby arrives (unless you put him in a backpack!) It is unfortunate that the new commute takes so long. That must be exhausting!
 
On the flip side I just found out I am expecting our second two weeks ago. We went out for a nice afternoon ride that weekend to capitalize on the unseasonally nice weather. We live one state north of you and though I would love to be an all season, hardcore rider... the rain is a bit too much wet for my liking!

Yesterday, while driving down a beautiful road that would make an awesome bike ride I turned to my sweetie and said- "I don't think I will be doing this ride anytime soon." He commented that my gear probably would not squeeze around the bulge come "prime" riding season. My response was that it isn't the gear but rather my spacey mental state, feelings of sickness, and general timidness that will overcome me first. That realization made me a bit sad but considering how much fun we have with our first child, the second one will be just as rewarding and riding will just have to wait. I suppose I can drive the sag wagon for our group instead!

Stay well and everyone else... Keep riding!  [moto]


Title: Re: Would you still ride if...
Post by: somegirl on March 07, 2010, 07:55:16 AM
Congrats No_Normale and best wishes! :)


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