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Title: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: factorPlayer on August 17, 2010, 12:08:29 AM
and I looked up my ex on Facebook - mistake!  some things should be left in the dark...

It was one of those things that was fun for a few years but ended badly and we stopped talking, now she's married and back living in the area.  I know logically life goes on of course but it is still weird and seeing pictures of her w/ hubby stirred some vague discomfort I couldn't quite pin down...

So take it from me and let such things be!  Look to the future not the past  ;D
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: zarn02 on August 17, 2010, 12:09:38 AM
*nods*

Generally a mistake to check into your past too much. :P
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: ducatiz on August 17, 2010, 04:03:10 AM
If you really liked her, then just be happy she moved on and is happy.  That's about it.  If you can't do that, then maybe you're nuts and need therapy..  [thumbsup]
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: wbeck257 on August 17, 2010, 05:03:23 AM
Quote from: ducatiz on August 17, 2010, 04:03:10 AM
If you really liked her, then just be happy she moved on and is happy.  That's about it.  If you can't do that, then maybe you're nuts and need therapy..  [thumbsup]

Lame...

Figure out where she lives and start going through her trash tonight.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: metallimonster on August 17, 2010, 05:06:03 AM
Quote from: wbeck257 on August 17, 2010, 05:03:23 AM
Lame...

Figure out where she lives and start going through her trash tonight.

Exactly, if she sees that you care she'll come back  ;D

Seriously though, I don't think it is a bad thing to look in from time to time.  It's hard to forget the past but remember that you remember the good times and forget the bad.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: duccarlos on August 17, 2010, 05:58:14 AM
I checked right now. She has it locked down and I'm not sending her a friend request even though it ended amicably.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: TJR178 on August 17, 2010, 08:13:49 AM
I've checked a few exgfs.  Most have gained weight (one is about two of me now) which is kinda funny and odd at the same time.  I must be high in calories  ;D

But yeah, I could give a rats ass what an ex is up to.  I just know I'm in a better place without them.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: Speedbag on August 17, 2010, 08:14:28 AM
This reminds me....

Not long ago I saw (from afar) an ex-girlfriend from high school. She was uber-hot then, and I was completely infatuated.

Now, not so much. Time has not been kind. Imagine a few hundred pounds of cottage cheese filling a flesh-colored balloon. :P
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: ducatiz on August 17, 2010, 08:19:31 AM
I could care less for most, but there was ONE who could swallow a kielbasa whole while yodeling. 

yeah.... miss that one.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: Popeye the Sailor on August 17, 2010, 08:28:00 AM
I've never bothered checking on an ex. They're an ex for a reason.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: derby on August 17, 2010, 08:28:59 AM
Quote from: ducatiz on August 17, 2010, 08:19:31 AM
I could care less for most, but there was ONE who could swallow a kielbasa whole while yodeling. 

yeah.... miss that one.

what a wasted skill on a vienna sausage.  ;D
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: redxblack on August 17, 2010, 08:30:00 AM
I had a gf who broke my heart when she broke up with me for no apparent reason. Years passed, I moved on and found someone a million times better. I looked up the ex on myspace and felt MUCH better about our breakup. She's gay. She didn't really dump me, she dumped men. Sometimes I feel like Philip J. Fry.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: RAT900 on August 17, 2010, 08:35:01 AM
Quote from: factorPlayer on August 17, 2010, 12:08:29 AM
and I looked up my ex on Facebook - mistake!  some things should be left in the dark...

It was one of those things that was fun for a few years but ended badly and we stopped talking, now she's married and back living in the area.  I know logically life goes on of course but it is still weird and seeing pictures of her w/ hubby stirred some vague discomfort I couldn't quite pin down...

So take it from me and let such things be!  Look to the future not the past  ;D

see if the hubby has a Facebook board and ask if she is still crazy into A to M like she used to be
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: ducatiz on August 17, 2010, 08:35:44 AM
Quote from: derby on August 17, 2010, 08:28:59 AM
what a wasted skill on a vienna sausage.  ;D

whatever makes you happy, derb  (http://www.supermotors.net/getfile/260794/thumbnail/smiley-flip-bird.gif)
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: zarn02 on August 17, 2010, 08:57:00 AM
Quote from: redxblack on August 17, 2010, 08:30:00 AM
I had a gf who broke my heart when she broke up with me for no apparent reason. Years passed, I moved on and found someone a million times better. I looked up the ex on myspace and felt MUCH better about our breakup. She's gay. She didn't really dump me, she dumped men. Sometimes I feel like Philip J. Fry.

I knew a girl in college whose father had been married either three, or four times (I forget), and each of his ex-wives had gone over to play for the other team.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: Kopfjäger on August 17, 2010, 09:28:09 AM
Quote from: zarn02 on August 17, 2010, 08:57:00 AM
I knew a girl in college whose father had been married either three, or four times (I forget), and each of his ex-wives had gone over to play for the other team.

Now we're getting into movie making material.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: ducatiz on August 17, 2010, 09:46:10 AM
Quote from: zarn02 on August 17, 2010, 08:57:00 AM
I knew a girl in college whose father had been married either three, or four times (I forget), and each of his ex-wives had gone over to play for the other team.

i would be so make the beast with two backsing mad.  i mean, how humiliating.. i could never live it down if my wife went in for the Red Sox.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: ducpainter on August 17, 2010, 11:16:01 AM
Quote from: derby on August 17, 2010, 08:28:59 AM
what a wasted skill on a vienna sausage.  ;D
nice one.

Quote from: ducatiz on August 17, 2010, 08:35:44 AM
whatever makes you happy, derb  (http://www.supermotors.net/getfile/260794/thumbnail/smiley-flip-bird.gif)
thenthitive today?
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: factorPlayer on August 17, 2010, 11:39:52 AM
Quote from: RAT900 on August 17, 2010, 08:35:01 AM
see if the hubby has a Facebook board and ask if she is still crazy into A to M like she used to be

hah right - that probably wouldn't be too far off with this one...  she wasn't nasty or anything but definitely fearless in bed.  Probably what I miss the most about her.  At any rate new hubby is welcome to deal with her bullshit now.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: Triple J on August 17, 2010, 12:40:27 PM
Quote from: factorPlayer on August 17, 2010, 11:39:52 AM
but definitely fearless in bed.  Probably what I miss the most about her. 

I'd bet that is the most common trait missed in ex-girlfriends!  [laugh]
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: muskrat on August 17, 2010, 12:48:57 PM
Sex with an ex is always great [evil]
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: Popeye the Sailor on August 17, 2010, 01:10:51 PM
Quote from: redxblack on August 17, 2010, 08:30:00 AM
I had a gf who broke my heart when she broke up with me for no apparent reason. Years passed, I moved on and found someone a million times better. I looked up the ex on myspace and felt MUCH better about our breakup. She's gay. She didn't really dump me, she dumped men. Sometimes I feel like Philip J. Fry.

Had the same thing happen-one girl left me for another girl. In my eloquence I asked "What does she have that I do.....oh".
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: KnightofNi on August 17, 2010, 01:26:21 PM
i'm afraid to look them up. they might be better off than i am even if i look better now.  [laugh]
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: Ddan on August 17, 2010, 02:30:39 PM
A wise man once told me, "No matter how good they seem, somewhere, somebody is sick of their shit"

Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: TJR178 on August 19, 2010, 07:48:29 AM
Quote from: muskrat on August 17, 2010, 12:48:57 PM
Sex with an ex is always great [evil]

This I do agree with.
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: ducatiz on August 19, 2010, 09:38:26 AM
Quote from: muskrat on August 17, 2010, 12:48:57 PM
Sex with an ex is always great [evil]

and with someone else's ex even better
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: rgramjet on August 19, 2010, 10:41:45 AM
Quote from: Triple J on August 17, 2010, 12:40:27 PM
I'd bet that is the most common trait missed in ex-girlfriends!  [laugh]

Wedding cake cures them of "those traits".........wtf didnt anybody tell me??
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: Triple J on August 19, 2010, 12:06:47 PM
Quote from: rgramjet on August 19, 2010, 10:41:45 AM
Wedding cake cures them of "those traits".........wtf didnt anybody tell me??

Someone probably did...you just didn't listen. Just like the rest of us!!  [laugh]
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: rgramjet on August 19, 2010, 12:20:23 PM
My long married buddy said to me the night of my bachelor party, and Ill never forget these words, "Come on in, the water's fine."  Should have read between the lines.........

A few hours later he was laying passed out on the floor, eyes caulked shut by a squirting stripper......
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: Kopfjäger on August 19, 2010, 12:29:07 PM
Quote from: rgramjet on August 19, 2010, 12:20:23 PM
My long married buddy said to me the night of my bachelor party, and Ill never forget these words, "Come on in, the water's fine."  Should have read between the lines.........

nsfw (language)

Bill Burr - Marriage (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEjVnkk9ezM#normal)
Title: Re: Curiosity got the better of me...
Post by: rgramjet on August 19, 2010, 12:35:15 PM
"is this the line to lose half my shit"!!!   Priceless!!!

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