...thanks for the support and the interest in this...(whatever you want to call it) "thing"
...but i hope you understand that neither her nor the restraining order are what we are talking about...
ps: you really think a restraining order would solve anything? really?
...my PM box went with the accout i deleted. But you should have them, go ahead and post them, if you want.
Chris, all i wanted was help form a friend and i got none. Thats it. All the pages and pages of how we are a comunity, a family, all the good initiatives to help fellow DMFrs, all the good will, the comradery...you guys cant even take my parts in a pretty simple situation like this one?...
Debate techniques that divert the attention from the part of the discussion you dont like, are pretty easy and basic...lets stick to the topic. The real topic.
The real topic (for the distracted ones) is why did I leave this board.
And the answer is that i was looking for support from a friend and i got none.
Thats it.
We could debate for hrs about the necessity or not to get a restraining order OR (wich would be much more interesting) we could discuss about the actual effectiveness of a restraining order...but thats not what we are talking about here, now.
So go on and post those PMs and show us how "friendly" your language was....dude, my insurance claims department has been friendlyer...and forget that just to get your attention i had to "report to moderstors" at least 3 times before even hearing "peep"
a rivederci
that's a pretty nice 'make the beast with two backs you' to the forum community because the administrators decided not to get rid of one of your ex girlfriends in the exact manner you wanted.
Pretty rational. I'll make a big speach about community and family, and then when they disagree with me I'll tell them all to go to hell and never deal with them again.
So which part of the discussion was I averting with my distraction technique (wtf?) ? The part where you asked the admins to ban a member with no questions and no communication and we (all of us) said no? That we'd ban her for violating the much more strict rules we set out for her...and that wasn't good enough for you?
If you're going to use the guilt family/community bullshit argument when you don't get your way then I get to point out that storming out the door while sulking that the 'family' doesn't love you is not the way to make yourself more endearing and fun.
I say this as I would to any of my dearest friends here to their face and it's not meant with any ill will at all... you are acting like a drama queen.
