I know its not much help now, but once I'm out there full time, I'd be willing to do some kid watching during the work week if they are well behaved and don't require constant supervision (fixing lunch, making sure the knives stay in the drawers, that kinda thing would be done).
All I require is an internet connection so I can work and it would cost you a heck of a lot less than a full day out of work or day care.
Y'all hang in there.
Oh! Here's a moto video of me (in the lead) and two other guys riding Deals Gap here in NC. Hope it chears y'all up.