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« Reply #15 on: February 06, 2009, 09:05:20 AM »

Once you both get past the brick-shitting phase, I'm sure you'll be fine. Its nothing you haven't seen before.
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« Reply #16 on: February 06, 2009, 09:14:57 AM »

so Tuesday my wife tells me she's pregnant.  This was neither expected or planned.  She's 40.  I'm 37.  We have two daughters 8 and 5.

And I'm seriously freaking out.


Any words of wisdom, encouragement, whatever from anyone else who has had an "oops" child?


thanks
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Congrats dude, I wouldn't sweat it. Kids are awesome. I have 2 ( 8 and 4 ) and could not imagine life without them. If I started a little younger, I'd have at least one more.

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« Reply #17 on: February 06, 2009, 09:47:59 AM »


I'm sure he says the same thing about you DS! 


Yeah, you're right!  Cheesy
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« Reply #18 on: February 06, 2009, 01:34:00 PM »

I was an oops - mom was 44 and dad was 50.  That was 35 years ago, when 40+ year old mothers were considered higher risk than today.  I kept my parents young, and having a retired dad when I was 14 was pretty cool.

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« Reply #19 on: February 06, 2009, 03:26:06 PM »

Count your blessings.  My bro and his wife are doing their third round of IVF and have spent over $80K on trying to get preggers.  BTW, you are still young.

Good luck.
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« Reply #20 on: February 06, 2009, 05:30:32 PM »

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« Reply #21 on: February 06, 2009, 06:15:29 PM »

goodluck and best wishes.

hope you have a good job to pay for what you know is coming. 

live and learn, you only have yourself to thank. applause
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« Reply #22 on: February 06, 2009, 06:37:05 PM »

I don't know... congrats if you are happy... thats what counts.

Several friends of mine have had "scares" as they call it.  Early 40's and just starting to enjoy life with the kids away at college.  They both went out for celebration dinners when they found out they weren't preggo.  Actually going away with one of the couples this week on vacation....  wouln't  have happened if she was pregnant.

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« Reply #23 on: February 06, 2009, 07:10:06 PM »

Ease into it slowly, my oops is 3 years old now Shocked

Perhaps if he had eased into it slowly in the first place he would not have had to start this thread. Grin
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« Reply #24 on: February 06, 2009, 07:24:25 PM »

Sell the forks...... diapers are expensive Tongue

On a serious note.... as a father of 3, one unplanned, you'll kick yourself fo feeling this way once you hold him or her.  Ask me how I know.... I was an absolute ass to my wife when she came home with the ultrasound..... that little image is now almost 2 & I love her to pieces.

Give it some time & look for the positives...... you'll be much better off down the road waytogo
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« Reply #25 on: February 06, 2009, 07:36:02 PM »

Well......at least you didn't have 8?

Please tell me you have never considered a career as a councilor?  Grin

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« Reply #26 on: February 06, 2009, 07:40:11 PM »

Please tell me you have never considered a career as a councilor?  Grin



Actually....I was a councilor  Tongue
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« Reply #27 on: February 06, 2009, 08:11:50 PM »

doesn't say a GOOD counselor.....
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« Reply #28 on: February 06, 2009, 08:14:24 PM »

Actually....I was a councilor  Tongue
for little girls at a summer camp?   Grin
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« Reply #29 on: February 06, 2009, 08:17:51 PM »

for little girls at a summer camp?   Grin

Can't say-it's councilor-client privileges.
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