thanks again, everyone. It always amazes me how a group of strangers can grow to care and know each other so well, even when some of us (myself included) don't always get along well with others. Your warm thoughts and well wishes mean a lot to me, and remind me to be nicer to people here and in RL.
We're slowly adjusting life with an infant and all their assorted accessories. Luckily I'm off work for 2 weeks and the wife is on disability for a while.
Donations to college and wedding savings accounts are now being accepted. Monster parts and/or custom work is also accepted in lieu of cash
Andy
edit: forgot this