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Sinister
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Re: SO How's the married life.... really?
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Quote from: bobspapa on February 16, 2009, 07:48:00 AM
hey...it keeps our marrage together
Damn Californians...
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"...but without a smiley, some people might think that sentence makes you look like a homophobic, inbred prick. I'm mean, it might leave the impression that you're a douchebag or a dickhead, or maybe you need to get your head out of your ass." DrunkenMonkey
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Quote from: Sinister on February 16, 2009, 08:01:50 AM
Damn Californians...
we lead the nation in innovation.
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Quote from: bobspapa on February 16, 2009, 08:05:57 AM
we lead the nation in innovation.
"Innovation?" That's what you're calling it now?
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"...but without a smiley, some people might think that sentence makes you look like a homophobic, inbred prick. I'm mean, it might leave the impression that you're a douchebag or a dickhead, or maybe you need to get your head out of your ass." DrunkenMonkey
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The only advice I will ever offer anyone on marriage is that for it to work, you both just have to want it to work. The details about how you make it work are trivial. You just have to be committed to serving the marriage.
So, it is not so much a question about occasionally being unhappy, but whether you are willing to do whatever is necessary to get past that.
Good luck on the decision...
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Quote from: Mother on February 15, 2009, 09:58:41 PM
it is what you choose it to be. no ones individual experience has a make the beast with two backsing thing to do with anyone else's individual experience.
Exactly.
And like JM said, communication is key.
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Quote from: Sinister on February 16, 2009, 08:01:50 AM
Damn Californians...
Doesnt BP live in San Fran?
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Quote from: cyrus buelton on February 16, 2009, 08:58:12 AM
Doesnt BP live in San Fran?
nope
SF is more like the armpit of Cali
I live in Bakersfield... the anus of Cali
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fellas don't all reply at once I'm not a fast reader
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Quote from: bobspapa on February 16, 2009, 09:02:26 AM
I live in Bakersfield... the anus of Cali
Fitting, given your prediliction for anal.
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"...but without a smiley, some people might think that sentence makes you look like a homophobic, inbred prick. I'm mean, it might leave the impression that you're a douchebag or a dickhead, or maybe you need to get your head out of your ass." DrunkenMonkey
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the very first response should have been......
WWSDD??
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After forty two and a half years married and four years going out with each other commumication is certainly the key ingredient plus alot of give and take
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Quote from: herm on February 16, 2009, 12:49:50 PM
the very first response should have been......
WWSDD??
<--There's yer answer.
And in response to California...even the good people from Cali are make the beast with two backsed up. And we still love you Joel.
Beck, seriously, Sinister and Cyrus are right. If you have to ask any of those questions, then marriage isn't in the cards right now for that relationship.
I spent alot of time asking myself if my last relationship was right or not. In the end, it wasn't. It took a good and brutal slap in the face to realize that. Better to figure this out now than to waste a few years in a marriage and then begin wanting out.
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Quote from: ZLTFUL on February 16, 2009, 01:16:59 PM
I spent alot of time asking myself if my last relationship was right or not. In the end, it wasn't. It took a good and brutal slap in the face to realize that. Better to figure this out now than to waste a few years in a marriage and then begin wanting out.
I like to think that I had a hand in that one. You turned out alright, kid.
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"...but without a smiley, some people might think that sentence makes you look like a homophobic, inbred prick. I'm mean, it might leave the impression that you're a douchebag or a dickhead, or maybe you need to get your head out of your ass." DrunkenMonkey
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Quote from: Sinister on February 16, 2009, 01:38:12 PM
I like to think that I had a hand in that one. You turned out alright, kid.
You definitely told him how it was.
Zltful turned out alright.
He is actually a cool guy, but a little on the fruity side
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Re: SO How's the married life.... really?
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have your perspective spouse read every one of your DMF posts. That should pretty much render the thread moot.
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