Seeking the wisdom of the almighty board

[zooom]

  But hey, we're just dumb guys. That's our job! We lift heavy things and reach shit on the top shelf... that's pretty much it!

and ogle at boobies!

[Le Pirate]

I'm going to take the contrarian stance here.


You should definently take things SLOW, but if you still love her, and you know she loves you, there is no harm in trying to save the relationship. I think the therapist is probably a great idea. She has to learn that playing the "I'm moving out/you're getting booted because things aren't my way" game isn't how you handle these things, but...if there is still something there, worth working through, then no reason to end it right away.

avoiding the "sleep over" is still a great idea...don't be sexin' it up before the problems are solved...

[Pip]

You may ask the board 3 things. His wisdom knows no bounds.


 

[zooom]

You may ask the board 3 things. His wisdom knows no bounds.


 

is that the Official Clue By 4?

[Porsche Monkey]

Well I went to the dragraces Saturday as planned and had a blast until the rain shut it down. Spent Friday night with the friend in the guest bedroom as I said I would. We had a really good time together but I kept thinking how guilty I would feel if I didn't give my marriage my best effort. There has been some absolutely great advice on here as well as in my PM's. When I got home from the races my ex was at our mutual friends house and wanting to come over to get her mail.  I told her I would bring it to her instead and  took off on the klr over to our friends house.  I kept thinking to myself how much I wanted her and my stepson to go to the company picnic instead of dragster girl. So that's what I did and we had a very good time. Took my stepson fishing, swimming, all the good stuff and felt great about it. I guess we will see if it lasts. 

[Unhinged]

Good for you man.  I really hope everything works out for you. 

[r_ciao]

whichever path you go down, i hope it works out for the better.
still waiting for pics of hot drag race girl 

[Popeye the Sailor]

whichever path you go down, i hope it works out for the better.
still waiting for pics of hot drag race girl 

You misread it. He's seeing a hot girl in drag.


Which one of them is dressed up is unclear.

[Porsche Monkey]

You misread it. He's seeing a hot girl in drag.


Which one of them is dressed up is unclear.

Doood that was our secret wtf. 

[ducpainter]

Doood that was our secret wtf. 

I see he's bullying you too.

[Porsche Monkey]

I see he's bullying you too.

Dango Californians

[redxblack]

There is no way for two unhappy people to be happy together.

My wife and I both strongly hate all the same stuff, which draws us closer together. I challenge your claim!

[rgramjet]

The enemy of my enemy is my spouse??

You might be on to something......