I hope you guys know each other...
I was hoping he could take a joke. This seems like a usually light hearted place.
OK. on with something more productive.
1. my first instructions are how to hold on to me. As were accelerating, decelerating and simply riding.
2. Ill also tell her about turns. Simplest instructions you can give to a passenger "if WE are going left, i simply need you to move your head slightly to the left.. so you can see to the left.. past my helmet. Same for the right."
People are going to suggest having your passenger lean, etc, etc, etc. The truth is, if a person is not comfortable as a passenger yet.. thats very unlikely to happen, and your just going to scare them more. Also, it'll just likely lead to information overload. Ie: how much should i lean? etc etc. However, a simple "peek" left to go left.. and simple "peek " right when we go right, accomplishes the same thing with over thinking it. With time, theyll refine how much to lean for the conditions at hand.
3. last but not least, always try to look ahead. If i slightly rise off the seat.. the passenger should to. Potholes are dangers enough riding alone.. but if it catches your passenger totally unaware, she will ietrally be jolted out of her seat.. while clinging on to you!
Those are the big 3 that I go over. This allows me to not OVERLOAD them with information theyre simply going to forget. Then, you can stop after a few minutes, and to a check in. How did that feel? Was it to fast for you? Too slow? Did you see pothole?
Then go out for another ride. Theyll get better with each ride, and then you can add more information to fine tune things. After a while, they become invisible.