There should definitely be more than 1 tablespoon for the two combined. Based on my super-scientific estimation techniques (trying to think of how many shot glasses worth of gas would fit in the float bowls), I would guess maybe 4-5 fl. oz for both (120-150ml).
It sounds like you are not maintaining the correct fuel level in the float bowls. The question is why. Likely suspects are usually a weaker than normal fuel pump, a failed or failing vacuum petcock, or a kinked line when the tank is closed. You can check the petcock by bypassing it, but I'm not entirely sure how to definitively check the fuel pump. My guess is that your fuel pump is probably not working like new, but also probably not the root cause of your problem. Fuel pump rebuild kits can be had for <$20, and would probably not be a bad idea for preventative maintenance at least (see
http://amzn.com/B000ONZTM2 for where I bought mine).
The petcock or pump would address your idle issues. However, your original problem of fuel starvation when maintaining a steady speed can be caused by the carb vent hose(s) that goes to the side pod(s) being disconnected (not quite sure what to call that hose, also not sure if there is more than one typically. The PO of my bike made a few changes, and there is only one on my bike, but YMMV). This has happened to me before. When the end of that hose is left exposed to the moving air, the pressure in the hose becomes too low, and results in insufficient fuel delivery, popping, and generally running like shit when maintaining a steady speed. So check and make sure that the side pods are connected.
Here's a quick tip that I think may come in handy for you: you can fill up the float bowls using the fuel pump without the engine running as long as you have bypassed or replaced your vacuum petcock and have a $4 siphon pump available.
http://www.ducatimonsterforum.org/index.php?topic=53585.msg991070#msg991070 . I typically do this whenever I drain the carb float bowls. After doing this, you don't need starting fluid or gas down the carbs to get it to start; you just start it like any other time. Also, once you have fixed your fuel issues, you may want to sync the carbs now that you've adjusted the idle set screw.
Good luck with everything!