Thanks for all the info and suggestions. Not sure what I am going to try..probably start cheap and move on from there. So since I'm sure everyone is real curious as to what my plan is

1. Re evaluate brake lever angle
2. Change Grips (have some gel ones from MP picked out)
3. Rotate the bars themselves for a slightly different angle (this suggestion from my brother, thanks man)
4. Bar risers
5. custom seat ( been thinking about this for a while anyway, wanting something a little lower and more comfy, or I'll finally make use of the extra seat I bought and try the low seat mod) I'm thinking that sitting lower may change things enough that it solves the problem.
6. Maybe the quick throttle thinga ma bob
Hopefully number 1 will fix everything:) I may be incorrect, but I don't think my body position is the issue, my first bike was a CBR 600 which puts more stress on wrists than the Duc. I have tried riding with just the thumb and forefinger to avoid deathgrip but that didn't help...oh there's also that junk to put inside the bars to help dull vibration..that will be number 2.1:)
Unfortunately I won't even be able to touch the bike until about Aug by which time I'll just want to ride and not mess with anything and just have numb hand

and I will then fix that problem with

. But like I said hopefully a nice cheap and easy solution will lead to
