lot's of homophobes here!

What do you mean? We are not afraid of you
In all honesty the most important aspect of ones motorcycle is that it impresses the owner. It should make you happy when you walk up to it. My bike has a few grand in mods and you really can't tell at first glance. But it sure makes me smile when I walk up.
Besides what's the point of trying to impress a bunch of testosterone soaked males who are not going to be doing you any Clintonesque favors when ya pull up to the local bar/coffee shop?
Ladies might like a guy secure enough in his masculinity to wear a bra in public anyway.