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Title: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Sleeper_I on October 18, 2008, 02:18:07 AM
Ok, as I am inching toward to a surprise proposal to my gf and best friend of seven years I am trying to figure out her ring size. What makes it hard is she currently doesn't have any rings in her collection. Plus, I don't want to make it obvious by going to a jewelry store to try some on.

Now onto my question, a coworker says that your shoe size is a close equivalent of your ring size. Are there any truth to this saying? Can anyone here vouch for this as I have never worn any rings before and a noob to jewelry.

It would be great if this is true as I would have a better guess with just her shoe size hehe.
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Dana on October 18, 2008, 03:38:21 AM
I'm afraid to say the only way to get the perfect fit is to use one of these:

http://www.amazon.com/RING-SIZER-Professional-JEWELERS-QUALITY/dp/B000SKRV9A/ref=pd_sim_k_2 (http://www.amazon.com/RING-SIZER-Professional-JEWELERS-QUALITY/dp/B000SKRV9A/ref=pd_sim_k_2)

There are other factors to consider...weight gain and lose, time of day you measured her, time of year (hands tend to get smaller in cold weather, but some people pack on the weight in winter).

Tough to surprise her AND have the exact size. 

You could hatch some brilliant plan to have a friend of hers go shopping with her to look at jewelry and see if she could determine a size.

Dana
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: BWClark on October 18, 2008, 04:32:18 AM
I thought ring sizes were in letters?!  ???  Maybe that's just in NZ.

I just bought a ring and we had it resized after I gave it to her (not your fiance, mine). I bought an obviously big size. They just cut the ring and close it and work their jeweler magic. When I bought it I negotiated the resizing as part of the deal.

Talk to the jeweler about it. They'll advise you.

Don't tell her friends. A girl's idea of a secret is something you can only tell one person at a time.   ;)

Good luck!
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: TiNi on October 18, 2008, 04:47:26 AM
congratulations on finding "the one" :)

shoe size has nothing to do with ring size.

i wear a 6.5 shoe and my ring is a 5

can you call her mom? she may know, or have an idea.

Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Howie on October 18, 2008, 05:15:04 AM
If you know a good jeweler, do what BWClark did.  If the work is good you will never find the seam.  Just don't go so big you may be insulting your lady.
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Slag on October 18, 2008, 05:34:53 AM
Quote from: howie on October 18, 2008, 05:15:04 AM
If you know a good jeweler, do what BWClark did.  If the work is good you will never find the seam.  Just don't go so big you may be insulting your lady.

I could not do that with titanium. It was either get it right the first time, or send it back for a new ring   :o
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: BWClark on October 18, 2008, 05:53:29 AM
Quote from: howie on October 18, 2008, 05:15:04 AM
... Just don't go so big you may be insulting your lady.

+1   [laugh]

Compare your fingers to hers, or find a girl with similar build and hands at the store. Don't get her anything that could go on her big toe!   ;D
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: printman on October 18, 2008, 05:58:14 AM
get her really drunk, til she passes out. Then measure her finger.   ;D


Congrats !!
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Charlief on October 18, 2008, 05:58:40 AM
You will definitely want to get as close to her size as possible.  Sizing can be done but depending on the setting (channel set side stones for instance) could pose a problem or two.  She doesn't have one ring you could "borrow"?    Thickness of the ring shank will also play into it..maybe 1/4 size or so.

Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Speedbag on October 18, 2008, 06:20:51 AM
Quote from: printman on October 18, 2008, 05:58:14 AM
get her really drunk, til she passes out. Then measure her finger.   ;D


This was my immediate thought also.  [thumbsup]
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: He Man on October 18, 2008, 08:37:01 AM
Quote from: Speedbag on October 18, 2008, 06:20:51 AM
This was my immediate thought also.  [thumbsup]

couldnt have said it any better. or you trick her. You know that joke, "they said you can tell if your gonna have a boy or a girl if they look at your palm" and WHAP in the face.

say, "you know, they said, if you have an even number ring size, your best years are on your even ages." and make her measure it herself and tell you. the drinking part is more fun though. congrats man!
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Popeye the Sailor on October 18, 2008, 09:30:53 AM
Quote from: Sleeper_I on October 18, 2008, 02:18:07 AM

Now onto my question, a coworker says that your shoe size is a close equivalent of your ring size. Are there any truth to this saying?

Er...my ring finger is a size fifteen. My shoes are a ten.




+1 on the getting her drunkeled.
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Sleeper_I on October 18, 2008, 10:54:37 AM
Quote from: printman on October 18, 2008, 05:58:14 AM
get her really drunk, til she passes out. Then measure her finger.   ;D

You guys are geniuses, how come I didn't think of that? [laugh]

Great suggestion He Man, that's usually the approach I use to get info from her but I doubt my gf knows her own size though (She not big on jewelry). So I can't use that in this case.

I've been searching around the net and someone suggests I measure her ring size with a string while she is asleep. Some guy even dip his fiance's ring finger into a jar of Play-Doh to get a measurement while she is asleep [laugh], too funny.

Maybe I'll combine the two, get her drunk and dip her finger into a jar of Play-Doh;D

Anymore suggestion? Man, I love DMF, will you marry me? jk, just practicing, hehe
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: motogpfan on October 18, 2008, 12:13:42 PM
unless she's a size 7 you're going to have to get it resized. all new rings come in a size 7. The best way to get close is to take a ring to the jeweler she wears on her ring finger in her right hand. If she's right handed the left one will be about 3/4 to 1  size smaller. The opposite for left handed people.

congrats, and don't let these make the beast with two backsing jewelers rip you off. 
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Popeye the Sailor on October 18, 2008, 01:50:31 PM
Quote from: motogpfan on October 18, 2008, 12:13:42 PM
congrats, and don't let these make the beast with two backsing jewelers rip you off. 

I hear they're all thieves.
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: MendoDave on October 18, 2008, 01:57:02 PM
What size Moto gloves does she wear? How well do they fit?
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: mcgalinmd on October 18, 2008, 04:51:03 PM
yeah, i'd try to grab another ring that she wears and take that to the jeweler! :)
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: motogpfan on October 20, 2008, 08:56:46 AM
Quote from: somebastid on October 18, 2008, 01:50:31 PM
I hear they're all thieves.

oh yeah, every single one of those bastards.
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Bick on October 20, 2008, 09:05:47 AM
Rings come out of the machine in different sizes?  ???

Estimate the size of her finger, go a little big, then have it resized after presentation.
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: Latinbalar on October 20, 2008, 11:05:41 AM
Dude just buy the ring then take her back to get it sized, I just proposed to my girl of 4+ years and it was no big thing.  Just make sure when you do ask that the jewlers are open the next day or that day cause she's gonna want to get it sized just as fast as you want to pick up your bike when you special ordered one.
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: motogpfan on October 20, 2008, 12:17:57 PM
Quote from: Bick on October 20, 2008, 09:05:47 AM
Rings come out of the machine in different sizes?  ???



nope, size 7 for ladies and size 10 for the dudes.

Quote from: Latinbalar on October 20, 2008, 11:05:41 AM
Dude just buy the ring then take her back to get it sized, I just proposed to my girl of 4+ years and it was no big thing.  Just make sure when you do ask that the jewlers are open the next day or that day cause she's gonna want to get it sized just as fast as you want to pick up your bike when you special ordered one.

depends where you buy it. 90% of your average jewelry stores send their work to stores like mine, where we have a full shop. your mall and chains stores generally do not have in house goldsmiths.
if worse comes to worse, overnight it to me and i'll size it and ship back the same day. no cost to you.
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: erkishhorde on October 20, 2008, 02:31:33 PM
If you were considering online purchases anyway you might consider browsing motogpfan's stock too.  [thumbsup]
Title: Re: Shoe size = Ring size ???
Post by: motogpfan on October 20, 2008, 02:39:47 PM
Quote from: erkishhorde on October 20, 2008, 02:31:33 PM
If you were considering online purchases anyway you might consider browsing motogpfan's stock too.  [thumbsup]

if thats the  case you are definitely not going to get it sized fast. find a local goldsmith, not just a jewelry store, and ask them if they offer while you wait sizing or at least next day turnaround.

Everything I carry are on these 3 sites. http://www.stuller.com/  https://www.qgold.com/default.aspx http://www.sefindings.com/OurProducts.htm

good luck, if the sales guy is wearing a cheap suit, go somewhere else.