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Title: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 09:31:40 AM
I got my stipulation and order for bifurcation stamped by the court today.  I am a free man.  The divorce continues to rage on in the court for over a year now but I am legally single.  I will have to pay cobra to maintain her health insurance until we can get the court to compel her to elect for coverage at her job or until we have a settlement in place.  But it is a small price to pay.

After reading this:
http://ducatimonsterforum.org/index.php?topic=39110.0 (http://ducatimonsterforum.org/index.php?topic=39110.0)
I think I will start wearing a bullet proof cup.

PS.  Don't tell Smoochie Girl that I'm single or she'll try to marry me.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: cyrus buelton on June 04, 2010, 09:46:15 AM
Quote from: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 09:31:40 AM
PS.  Don't tell Smoochie Girl that I'm single or she'll try to marry me.


congrats on being a legally single guy  [thumbsup]

As far as the above..............ha.......you are done for on that my man or until common law marriage kicks in (if the PRK has such a law)
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Slide Panda on June 04, 2010, 10:48:07 AM
Quote from: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 09:31:40 AM
I got my stipulation and order for bifurcation stamped by the court today.  I am a free man.  The divorce continues to rage on in the court for over a year now but I am legally single.  I will have to pay cobra to maintain her health insurance until we can get the court to compel her to elect for coverage at her job or until we have a settlement in place.  But it is a small price to pay.

PS.  Don't tell Smoochie Girl that I'm single or she'll try to marry me.

Oh... did I say that out loud  ;D
Congrats on out with the old... and in with the new
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 11:04:47 AM
Quote from: cyrus buelton on June 04, 2010, 09:46:15 AM

congrats on being a legally single guy  [thumbsup]

As far as the above..............ha.......you are done for on that my man or until common law marriage kicks in (if the PRK has such a law)

No common law here believe it or not and SG doesn't read the forum that often so I am accepting dates until she finds out or we get married, whichever comes first.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 11:05:18 AM
Maybe I should have a DMF bachelor party.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Popeye the Sailor on June 04, 2010, 11:11:02 AM
I never had one. Let's go.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: DesmoDiva on June 04, 2010, 11:14:19 AM
Congrats, man!!

Quote from: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 11:05:18 AM
Maybe I should have a DMF bachelor party.

Nothing good would come of this... ;D [evil]
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: fastwin on June 04, 2010, 11:34:16 AM
Congrats! I can feel your pain and freedom. My divorce took two and a half years and we didn't even have any kids to fight over. [bang] She was just psycho and drug it out as long as she could just to keep the misery factor on the rev limiter. And it was... :P Driving away from the courthouse after if was a done deal sure felt good. Like a load of bricks was finally off my back. Not having to pay anymore attorney fees was a nice perk too! [thumbsup]

Enjoy yourself. Have a cold adult beverage or two. [beer]
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Drunken Monkey on June 04, 2010, 11:41:12 AM
My first marriage ended quickly and without drama.

On the flip side, it was expensive.

But worth every penny.

Mazel Tov!
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: RAT900 on June 04, 2010, 11:49:55 AM
Quote from: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 11:05:18 AM
Maybe I should have a DMF bachelor party.

Contact JuDDddDD about the entertainment...he might have some ideas
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Popeye the Sailor on June 04, 2010, 11:53:09 AM
Quote from: RAT900 on June 04, 2010, 11:49:55 AM
Contact JuDDddDD about the entertainment...he might have some ideas

I think he knows a bartender who needs work.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: smoochie girl on June 04, 2010, 02:30:04 PM
Quote from: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 11:04:47 AM
No common law here believe it or not and SG doesn't read the forum that often so I am accepting dates until she finds out or we get married, whichever comes first.
I don't read the forum? Think again Baby.  And I don't think so about dating bit :p
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: RAT900 on June 04, 2010, 03:00:35 PM
Quote from: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 11:05:18 AM
Maybe I should have a DMF bachelor party.

well given the above, please refer to the "That's a special kind of angry/crazy" thread

and remember the only true freedom is death...all else is conditional
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 03:53:52 PM
Quote from: smoochie girl on June 04, 2010, 02:30:04 PM
I don't read the forum? Think again Baby.  And I don't think so about dating bit :p

These are not the droids you're looking for.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: fastwin on June 04, 2010, 04:29:33 PM
Good one. If I only had that kind of mind control my 916SPS would run better!! [bang] [laugh]
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: somegirl on June 04, 2010, 06:27:28 PM
Congrats! [beer]

Quote from: silentbob on June 04, 2010, 03:53:52 PM
These are not the droids you're looking for.

...and good luck! ;) ;D
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Grampa on June 04, 2010, 06:34:13 PM
Blind Boys Of Alabama's new video 'Free at Last' (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJbPKDmxkC4#lq-lq2-hq-vhq)
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: DoubleEagle on June 04, 2010, 09:06:36 PM
Out of the Frying pan ....and in to the Fire !

Best wishes Rob.

Dolph       :)
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: badgalbetty on June 05, 2010, 04:02:14 AM
my divorce is almost negotiated, its been a year................I cannot wait for the day! [thumbsup]
freedom!
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 07, 2010, 10:16:28 AM
Well you guys couldn't keep a secret and now I'm off to get married.  Apparently the Jedi mind trick didn't work either.  I still want my DMF bachelor party though.

Oh, I got a fax today, Irina's third attorney just quit.  She is now going pro per.  This should be interesting.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: RAT900 on June 07, 2010, 11:37:35 AM
Irina?

that was the name of the last one?

Was she like one of those Russian mail-order jobs?   

I tried to get some friends to all chip-in on one a few years ago

but there were legal issues around that and no one wanted to hold the title to her

Anyway  good on you...

I admire a fellow who gets thrown off a horse and climbs back in the saddle

I am awestruck by guys who get viciously trampled by the rodeo bull

and can't wait to get back in the ring
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 07, 2010, 12:43:05 PM
She was not a mail order bride.  She was a citizen before I met her.  She is however a crazy Russian and she learned to kill in Odesa before coming to the states.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 07, 2010, 12:48:14 PM
Oh, I got married a half hour ago BTW.  So, I guess my prospective dates will have to contact me offline.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: smoochie girl on June 07, 2010, 12:59:38 PM
Quote from: silentbob on June 07, 2010, 12:48:14 PM
Oh, I got married a half hour ago BTW.  So, I guess my prospective dates will have to contact me offline.
What is wrong with you? I realize that's a loaded question babe :P
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 07, 2010, 01:13:04 PM
It's a long list and you still married me.  What does that say about your state of mind.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Adamm0621 on June 07, 2010, 01:38:10 PM
Don't waste much time do ya? [cheeky]  [clap]
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: the_Journeyman on June 07, 2010, 04:07:15 PM
Quote from: DoubleEagle on June 04, 2010, 09:06:36 PM
Out of the Frying pan ....and in to the Fire !

That was a Steinman/Meatloaf track.  It had lots on innuendos...  Congrats!

JM
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: DoubleEagle on June 07, 2010, 06:26:40 PM
Quote from: badgalbetty on June 05, 2010, 04:02:14 AM
my divorce is almost negotiated, its been a year................I cannot wait for the day! [thumbsup]
freedom!
Congrats  [drink]

Dolph     :)
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: DoubleEagle on June 07, 2010, 06:31:08 PM
Quote from: silentbob on June 07, 2010, 12:48:14 PM
Oh, I got married a half hour ago BTW.  So, I guess my prospective dates will have to contact me offline.
I just hope you 2 are happy and don't get divorced for at least........... 2 years.

Dolph       :)
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Duck-Stew on June 07, 2010, 07:44:56 PM
This definitely gets my vote for oddest thread ever.

But, as someone who has gotten back on the horse and clamored to get back onto the bull (see RAT's post above)...  I admire and congradulate you two.  [beer]
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Howie on June 08, 2010, 01:55:31 AM
[wine] [beer] [drink]

CONGRATS!!!
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: RAT900 on June 08, 2010, 03:04:48 AM
Quote from: Duck-Stew on June 07, 2010, 07:44:56 PM
This definitely gets my vote for oddest thread ever.


No shit!!  It starts with "I'm Free"

Goes to Bachelor Party Plans

and the idea of maybe casual dating

To re-marriage


At this current rate of life-shaping events I suggest we don't blink,,,, we'll miss the appearance of the 3 kids :-)
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: NuTTs on June 08, 2010, 03:33:34 AM
Congrats on being single, and then married again. Be happy!  [thumbsup]

My divorce just finalized a few weeks ago. I'm free now, but make the beast with two backsing broke  [laugh]
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 08, 2010, 05:40:55 AM
Quote from: RAT900 on June 08, 2010, 03:04:48 AM
No shit!!  It starts with "I'm Free"

Goes to Bachelor Party Plans

and the idea of maybe casual dating

To re-marriage


At this current rate of life-shaping events I suggest we don't blink,,,, we'll miss the appearance of the 3 kids :-)


I have full custody of my son, my step daughter arrives on Saturday, and the new baby will be born in january.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: SacDuc on June 08, 2010, 05:48:56 AM
Quote from: silentbob on June 08, 2010, 05:40:55 AM

I have full custody of my son, my step daughter arrives on Saturday, and the new baby will be born in january.

February they all graduate from college and silentbob retires. Mid-march he will move to Florida and by April he'll be in the retirement home. Memorial services are scheduled for May 5th.

RIP silentbob.   :'(

sac


Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Grampa on June 08, 2010, 05:49:24 AM
need a puppy?




[cheeky]
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: RAT900 on June 08, 2010, 05:50:42 AM
Quote from: silentbob on June 08, 2010, 05:40:55 AM

I have full custody of my son, my step daughter arrives on Saturday, and the new baby will be born in january.
[laugh]  Like I said ....don't blink
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 08, 2010, 05:52:46 AM
Quote from: bobspapa on June 08, 2010, 05:49:24 AM
need a puppy?




[cheeky]

Already adopted an ocicat.  Should be picking it up next month.
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Grampa on June 08, 2010, 06:01:35 AM
but..... thats not a puppy


we have extras ya know ;D
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: Triple J on June 08, 2010, 06:09:53 AM
Now this is how a thread should go...efficiency!!!  [thumbsup] [thumbsup]

Divorced, dated, married, three kids, and a cat in 3 pages!  :o

It took Cyrus 15 pages just to get the balls up to chicken out on driving a 20 year old pick-up!  [evil]
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: cyrus buelton on June 08, 2010, 06:18:52 AM
Quote from: Triple J on June 08, 2010, 06:09:53 AM
Now this is how a thread should go...efficiency!!!  [thumbsup] [thumbsup]

Divorced, dated, married, three kids, and a cat in 3 pages!  :o

It took Cyrus 15 pages just to get the balls up to chicken out on driving a 20 year old pick-up!  [evil]

Why do I find myself getting mixed in to every make the beast with two backsing thread???????????


This thread did make an odd turn
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: DoubleEagle on June 08, 2010, 06:38:05 PM
If you are getting an Ocelot Bob, .......I wish you lots of luck.

Had a friend who had one .

Might as well had a young Tiger !

Dolph       :)
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: DesmoDiva on June 09, 2010, 03:36:26 AM
Pretty sure he said an ocicat (domestic cat hybrid):

(http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:flQ_9QiOTcAF7M:http://www.animalsites.net/news/gallery/ocicat/ocicat-17.jpg)

not an ocelot (wild cat):

(http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:T6tZ4ptBSjbGPM:http://paragonbengals.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/ocelot_zoobabyb1.jpg)
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: silentbob on June 09, 2010, 08:10:49 AM
Thanks for all the well wishes.

Now where's my party?
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: SacDuc on June 09, 2010, 08:22:16 AM
Quote from: silentbob on June 09, 2010, 08:10:49 AM
Thanks for all the well wishes.

Now where's my party?

Bachelor parties are for bachelor's. Go mow the lawn and ask if you can get nine holes in after brunch with the in-laws this weekend like the rest of the married schmucks.

;)


sac
Title: Re: YES!!!! I'm free
Post by: The Bacon Junkie on June 09, 2010, 09:48:09 AM
Quote from: SacDuc on June 09, 2010, 08:22:16 AM
Bachelor parties are for bachelor's. Go mow the lawn and ask if you can get nine holes in after brunch with the in-laws this weekend like the rest of the married schmucks.

;)


sac


[laugh]