buying the wrong ring?

Started by KnightofNi, April 28, 2009, 08:56:40 AM

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That Nice Guy Beck!

Quote from: DesmoDiva on April 29, 2009, 04:29:25 PM
[laugh] [laugh] [laugh]
youd be happy if your man gave you a cracker jack ring?
seriously?
and dont give me that oh love concurs all crap either.
your man works makes decent money , buys you a $20 engagement ring would that fly?

DesmoDiva

Quote from: That Nice Guy Beck! on April 29, 2009, 04:51:01 PM
youd be happy if your man gave you a cracker jack ring?
seriously?
and dont give me that oh love concurs all crap either.
your man works makes decent money , buys you a $20 engagement ring would that fly?

Yes, I would have.

Because he also bought me hot Italian sex on wheels.   [moto]
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That Nice Guy Beck!

Quote from: DesmoDiva on April 29, 2009, 04:53:56 PM
he also bought me hot Italian sex on wheels.   [moto]


he bought you a ferrari?

DesmoDiva

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That Nice Guy Beck!

Quote from: DesmoDiva on April 29, 2009, 04:58:58 PM
The next best thing....

A Ducati.....

yea you posted pics right? black 749?
I have a dark, arent they pretty?

but seriously if your man threw you a $5 ring and he was banking over 100k a year and DIDNT buy you that hot 749 love or no love youd be bent, come on be real now.

Statler

I was thinking he got you a poolboy with slicked back hair riding a honda spree....but a Duc works too.
It's still buy a flounder a drink month

Statler

Quote from: That Nice Guy Beck! on April 29, 2009, 05:02:15 PM
yea you posted pics right? black 749?
I have a dark, arent they pretty?

but seriously if your man threw you a $5 ring and he was banking over 100k a year and DIDNT buy you that hot 749 love or no love youd be bent, come on be real now.

you are obviously coming from a position or thought where the money and monetary decisions in a relationship stays very separate.   The perspective changes a lot when that basic assumption is not true.   No judgements....just a very different way of being together.
It's still buy a flounder a drink month

DesmoDiva

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Quote from: That Nice Guy Beck! on April 29, 2009, 05:02:15 PM
yea you posted pics right? black 749?
I have a dark, arent they pretty?

but seriously if your man threw you a $5 ring and he was banking over 100k a year and DIDNT buy you that hot 749 love or no love youd be bent, come on be real now.

The 749 was actually a wedding present.  

A Monster 695 came before that.  I also inherited his ST4, when he bought an ST4s.  

Seriously, I'm far too practical to care about bling.  

To be honest, if he had bought me the equivalent $$$ as power/wood working tools I would be just as happy, if not happier.  
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Quote from: Statler on April 29, 2009, 05:08:02 PM
you are obviously coming from a position or thought where the money and monetary decisions in a relationship stays very separate.   The perspective changes a lot when that basic assumption is not true.   No judgements....just a very different way of being together.

talking about an engagement ring, its one thing if times are rough and one cannot afford something nice, its another thing if the guy has a jay oh bee and still goes out and gets her the cheap fi dolla jammie from canal street.

That Nice Guy Beck!

Quote from: DesmoDiva on April 29, 2009, 05:10:36 PM
The 749 was actually a wedding present.  

A Monster 695 came before that.  I also inherited his ST4, when he bought an ST4s.  

Seriously, I'm far too practicle to care about bling.  

To be honest, if he had bought me the equvilant $$$ as power/wood working tools I would be just as happy, if not happier.  
hey thats fair, I never bought my girl a piece of jewlery ever in our 5 year relationship, well except for a nice watch, but when and IF* ring day does come im buying her the glenn garry ring, because shes my sexy hot little israeli and she deserves it, if she was into bikes id get her a white 848 right now. but diva your man sounds like a great guy lucky you  [thumbsup]

jdubbs32584

Quote from: That Nice Guy Beck! on April 29, 2009, 05:02:15 PM

but seriously if your man threw you a $5 ring and he was banking over 100k a year and DIDNT buy you that hot 749 love or no love youd be bent, come on be real now.

No. I would not be bent. Not every girl thinks that way but there are some of us who truly do not care. Have you seen somegirl's ring? Not every girl thinks how you assume they do. That's what several of us have been trying to explain.

Popeye the Sailor

Quote from: That Nice Guy Beck! on April 29, 2009, 05:02:15 PM
but seriously if your man threw you a $5 ring and he was banking over 100k a year and DIDNT buy you that hot 749 love or no love youd be bent, come on be real now.

Uh, I threw the wife a 50 cent ring and I do alright. Girl was not bent. Girl was excited. It was about me spending forever with her an no one else, not about how much money I could sink into something shiny.


Sorry dude-95% of the people in here are telling you you're off base because you are. Not all girls are materialistic-just because you can't imagine it doesn't mean it's not true.
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Quote from: MrIncredible on April 29, 2009, 08:04:18 PM
Sorry dude-95% of the people in here are telling you you're off base because you are. Not all girls are materialistic-just because you can't imagine it doesn't mean it's not true.

I don't think he is totally off base.

there are A LOT of women that think that way.

Just so happens they are not on this board.
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Quote from: cyrus buelton on April 30, 2009, 07:12:53 AM
I don't think he is totally off base.

there are A LOT of women that think that way.

Just so happens they are not on this board.

they are at Walmart waiting for Randall to swing by
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