Death in my family. Semi distant support request.

[swampduc]

I'm very sorry, Lars 
Some losses do take a while to really be felt. Prayers sent for you and your family.

[metallimonster]

Dude I am so sorry for your loss.

I lost both of my grandparents who i grew up with in 2 months last year.  Talking to people like this really helps but it really helps me to take the time and think about them every once in awhile.  Sometimes when I am having a frustrating day I think about what they would have said to me if I were able to talk to them and I get this good feeling.  The memories never fade but the pain does somewhat.  All you can do is try to help her memory live on by doing things she would have wanted you to do.

[Drunken Monkey]

Condolences from my and my family.

When my grandfather passed a friend gave me some advice that helped me a lot: He asked me if my grandfather would want me to be sad about his passing.

[Speeddog]

Good thoughts going out to you and yours in this difficult time.

[Scottish]

Prayers going to you and yours. 

[somegirl]

I'm so sorry for your loss, sending ((hugs)).

[Ddan]

I can't add any to what's already been said, just my condolences.

[stopintime]

It's difficult to describe the warmth I feel from your posts.

Taking it slow - a few tears on my own, crying with family and friends, some good memories, planning the practical challenges AND new inspiration to live my life to it's capacity.

I have a fresh memory of how she didn't protest to my new Monster.
I expected a few worried headshakes, but didn't get any.
I think she understood what my Ducati-smile was all about.

[causeofkaos]

my deapest condolences,
sometimes being alone helps and sometimes you need a room full of friends and family, everyone handles it different.
Bro hugs from central Cali

[brimo]

Condolences mate, all I can add is through my own experience with time the pain fades, it's still there, as are the memories of the times both good and bad that you shared together.

[Nibor]

i'm sorry to hear it mate
our thoughts from all us Aussies are with you.

i lost my father when i was 12. as others have said, it takes a long time to sink in, and time again for the wounds to even begin to heal. i'm just grateful for the time i did have with my dad, and the memories i have. all you can do is remember them

[signora monster]

I am sorry for your loss. It is incredibly difficult but it is gets easier to cope with in time. You will never forget, you will cry for quite some time, but one day the good memories will become more prominent and they will make you smile. Be kind to yourself and don't be afraid to talk to her, she will be with you in spirit.

[Mr.S2R]

Sorry for your loss man.  My father passed away Dec 09 - long battle with illness.  I had prepared myself but it was still hard.  I got a lot of great memories, photos, and more importantly his tools.  I said my goodbyes and apologies to my dad at his funeral - never too late to say those things, especially I love you.  There will be hard times coming too  - will, insurance, other paperwork - that give a sort of finality to it all.  Just look at the beautiful things she brought it to your life.  Don't be afraid to be sad or cry.

[heatherp]

Hugs Lars.  Like many here, I've been there in the recent past too.

Cry when you have to and don't be surprised if you need to smile or laugh at some memories either.

Heather

[dragonworld.]

Hey Lars

My very sincere condolences! Even after losing a daughter to S.I.D.s I wouldnt even attempt to try and advise anyone how/what to do except for love the memories and cherish the person that she was! Smile at the funny and dearest times that will one day push the pain of loss into the background!

It does help to know that there are friends all over the world that are feeling for you at this time, take comfort in all our best wishes.

I raise a glass to your Mum!