Welcome!
I came off a CBR1000F so I can understand your confusion... the Ducati is not a drag bike, but what it loses in top end it makes up for in handling, torque, and esprit de corps. It's simply a different kind of power, and certainly a different kind of bike. Even with 'only' a 800 Monster, I don't really miss the 1000, particularly the weight and heat... although I'll not deny the rush of an I-4 liter-bike at 11000RPM.
I miss the rush of the FZ01 that's for sure...felt like I had instant power and got to speed way faster than the Duc. I know it's different kind of speed/power, but it takes some getting used to. The handling by far is way better on the monter as I don't have to put to much pressure on the bike when countersteering and she starts to lay down when asked with the utmost of ease. That is one area I can't get over, how easy she is to manage. She is also super light compared to my heavy FZ01...I also miss the center stand as I don't like that I can't get the bike up without having to buy something else (rear paddock stand) to clean the chain and/or remove the wheels. The duc nuts issue is another thing to get used to as it seems like I get that constantly even if I move back I tend to keep moving forward after a while even after installing grip tape to the tank and really squeezing the tank with my knees.
Either way, I do love my new bike for the feel/sound/soul of it...next is time to source a 1100 S model to get the forks, rear shock and the gold wheels, then I can get the black/gold tank covers to finish off the look I'm going for. Thanks for your time fella's and safe riding!!