Curiosity got the better of me...

[factorPlayer]

and I looked up my ex on Facebook - mistake!  some things should be left in the dark...

It was one of those things that was fun for a few years but ended badly and we stopped talking, now she's married and back living in the area.  I know logically life goes on of course but it is still weird and seeing pictures of her w/ hubby stirred some vague discomfort I couldn't quite pin down...

So take it from me and let such things be!  Look to the future not the past 

[zarn02]

*nods*

Generally a mistake to check into your past too much.

[ducatiz]

If you really liked her, then just be happy she moved on and is happy.  That's about it.  If you can't do that, then maybe you're nuts and need therapy.. 

[wbeck257]

If you really liked her, then just be happy she moved on and is happy.  That's about it.  If you can't do that, then maybe you're nuts and need therapy.. 

Lame...

Figure out where she lives and start going through her trash tonight.

[metallimonster]

Lame...

Figure out where she lives and start going through her trash tonight.

Exactly, if she sees that you care she'll come back 

Seriously though, I don't think it is a bad thing to look in from time to time.  It's hard to forget the past but remember that you remember the good times and forget the bad.

[duccarlos]

I checked right now. She has it locked down and I'm not sending her a friend request even though it ended amicably.

[TJR178]

I've checked a few exgfs.  Most have gained weight (one is about two of me now) which is kinda funny and odd at the same time.  I must be high in calories 

But yeah, I could give a rats ass what an ex is up to.  I just know I'm in a better place without them.

[Speedbag]

This reminds me....

Not long ago I saw (from afar) an ex-girlfriend from high school. She was uber-hot then, and I was completely infatuated.

Now, not so much. Time has not been kind. Imagine a few hundred pounds of cottage cheese filling a flesh-colored balloon.

[ducatiz]

I could care less for most, but there was ONE who could swallow a kielbasa whole while yodeling. 

yeah.... miss that one.

[Popeye the Sailor]

I've never bothered checking on an ex. They're an ex for a reason.

[derby]

I could care less for most, but there was ONE who could swallow a kielbasa whole while yodeling. 

yeah.... miss that one.

what a wasted skill on a vienna sausage. 

[redxblack]

I had a gf who broke my heart when she broke up with me for no apparent reason. Years passed, I moved on and found someone a million times better. I looked up the ex on myspace and felt MUCH better about our breakup. She's gay. She didn't really dump me, she dumped men. Sometimes I feel like Philip J. Fry.

[RAT900]

and I looked up my ex on Facebook - mistake!  some things should be left in the dark...

It was one of those things that was fun for a few years but ended badly and we stopped talking, now she's married and back living in the area.  I know logically life goes on of course but it is still weird and seeing pictures of her w/ hubby stirred some vague discomfort I couldn't quite pin down...

So take it from me and let such things be!  Look to the future not the past 

see if the hubby has a Facebook board and ask if she is still crazy into A to M like she used to be

[ducatiz]

what a wasted skill on a vienna sausage. 

whatever makes you happy, derb 

[zarn02]

I had a gf who broke my heart when she broke up with me for no apparent reason. Years passed, I moved on and found someone a million times better. I looked up the ex on myspace and felt MUCH better about our breakup. She's gay. She didn't really dump me, she dumped men. Sometimes I feel like Philip J. Fry.

I knew a girl in college whose father had been married either three, or four times (I forget), and each of his ex-wives had gone over to play for the other team.