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RAT900

#30
June 01, 2011, 03:37:46 PM Last Edit: June 01, 2011, 03:57:26 PM by RAT900
Quote from: Adamm0621 on June 01, 2011, 01:47:46 PM
Oh, wise sage... otherwise known as RAT900... I seek guidance, wondering if I shall partake in break-up sex?  The mind may be strong, but the flesh is willing.

;D


no!!!  

that will just cloud up everything and introduce physical (as well as emotional) risk to your resolve

and that may be just what she wants  keep you on the back burner in case things suck by the time you are back home for good

she has already proven to you at least two or three times by your own estimate...that you are little more than a bill payer who gives her a warm place to shit

finalize the divorce then maybe after the ink is dry circle back and offer to give her ass-to-mouth training or something

Okay all misogynistic crudeness aside...

don't go there...rub one out in your hand if you have to...or a dozen.....make the beast with two backs her mom, her kid sister, hell her brother or her father but don't make the beast with two backs HER

because with all the incredible thoughtless shit that has been heaped on you at such an incredibly bad time for you...

how could sex with her amount to much more than jerking off by using her hole...?

this is how...it will leave you feeling confused or hopeful or uncertain and all prepped for the next brick in the teeth she sends your way....clearly the woman...well strike that..... the GIRL has no regard for the damage she deals out...she is lacking the capacity for empathy or understanding or responsibility for the pain she inflicts...

she is un-evolved emotionally, lacks character and emotional integrity/substance...instead of make the beast with two backsing her....make the beast with two backsing run screaming

you deserve a hell of a lot better than to play as second fiddle when you are supposed to be in the first fiddle seat

I have no doubt that your love for her is genuine and sincere....guess what? hers isn't...

she does not have it for you like you do for her and she knows that

so to engage with her will be on her home turf and with her holding the strategic advantage

knowing she can exploit your feelings and risk none of hers (since her's are only vaporware and empty words anyway)

Adam it is this simple.... the love of your life lays in the life ahead of you...not in this sad and disappointing past

rummaging through the wreckage only brings sorrow

get home safe and find that one that "gets it"...she is out there probably taking her lumps right now as well...your paths will cross

and you will look back and shiver in horror at what you settled for before....





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Monsterlover

#31
June 01, 2011, 03:50:05 PM
^

What he said.

Don't do it.
"The Vincent was like a bullet that went straight; the Ducati is like the magic bullet in Dallas that went sideways and hit JFK and the Governor of Texas at the same time."--HST    **"A man who works with his hands is a laborer.  A man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman.  A man who works with his hands, brains, and heart is an artist."  -Louis Nizer**

fastwin

#32
June 01, 2011, 05:14:08 PM
Good advice. [thumbsup] You've got better things to do with the rest of your life. Just make sure you have the rest of your life to live. Come home safe and sound. Hang in there bro'. [beer]
I plan to list the Federal Gov't. as a dependent on my next 1040 tax filing!

I have flying honey badgers and I'm not afraid to use them!

The fact that flame throwers exist is proof that someone somewhere said "I'd sure like to set those people over there on fire but I'm just not close enough to get the job done."

CONFIDENCE: the feeling you have right before you understand the situation.

Adamm0621

#33
June 02, 2011, 12:27:44 AM
@ RAT900...

I wasn't seriously considering sleeping with her, I just like to read your rants (highly insightful though they may be).

My plan for leave is quite simple...  I've lost about 30 pounds since I left and am looking DAMN good right now.  I intend to rub that in her face at every possible chance (Not verbally... I just plan on walking around half naked the entire time I'm there).  It helps that she's put on quite a few pounds since I left as well (I think I only weigh about 10 pounds more than she does now). [evil]

I've already decided that the best course of action is to get this divorce over with as soon as possible, making sure I don't get screwed in the process, and then moving on with life.

For those of you that are concerned with my safety, I appreciate the sentiment.  However, in any good soldier there is a mental separation that takes place when there is a mission at hand.  I call it going into "Go Mode."  When I've got a task to carry out, or when I'm "outside the wire" the only thoughts that enter my mind are those pertaining to accomplishing the mission, and getting my soldiers back safely.  The only time that thoughts from home interfere or affect morale is when I have down time... which is why I've been spending so much time in the gym.

If something should happen and I don't make it home safely, it'll be due to factors outside of my control, and will in no way be related to the bullshit going on back home.  Does it make this deployment more difficult?  Yes.  Am I able to mitigate the majority of the bullshit? Definitely.  For those of you who have never served in a combat zone, there's really no room for self-pity to get a hand-hold when there's bullets whizzing overhead, or mortars dropping around you.
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RAT900

#34
June 02, 2011, 04:37:34 AM Last Edit: June 02, 2011, 04:56:33 AM by RAT900
<laughing>  then good for you Adam!!!  glad to hear you have the ability to compartmentalize...not everyone has that capacity or mental discipline

and if I am of service with my rants to a man in the active service then so much the better  [thumbsup]


They're easy to write...(the rants)  because I have the extensive scar tissue from divorce to inspire me

and if there was a mistake to be made I covered them all...but boy did I ever do the post-mortem research on the hows and why's of every land mine I stepped on

nevertheless I managed to get custody of my twins in 1993 when they were 8 years old and raised them...they are both accomplished and successful pains in the ass

they don't have that vacant-eyed refugee look that neglected and abused kids of divorce can sometimes get... they are not "victims"

that would never had played out had they stayed with their deadbeat mother....they were far from being her first priority beyond the make the beast with two backsing gobs of child support she got and never spent on them

to see them happy and successful today well...it made every day I spent in family court for 5 years, and every penny I spent and every indignity suffered at the hands of court evaluators and social workers with their proctological level of assessments worth it

and if I thought my ex made life painful....nothing could ever hurt more or match the pain of seeing your kids going under emotionally

and that is why I am saying to you that you have to level the playing field with her for

any potential future situations...that is the one detail you have to sweat

the world has exceeded its quota of whining losers and self-styled victims of some sort of bad deal....

raise a self-confident winner...they are in dreadfully short supply
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Adamm0621

#35
June 02, 2011, 08:58:31 AM
I just finished having a telephonic appointment with my lawyer... if the wife continues to be as approachable and agreeable as she has been so far, the lawyer will have the paperwork ready to sign within a day or two after our meeting.  If everything goes as planned, I'll be divorced sometime in mid-August.
2010 Monster 696 Dark

VisceralReaction

#36
June 02, 2011, 10:20:37 AM
Good to hear, I too have the scars as Rat does. But i would rather read about Rat's rants than my own  [laugh]
You sound like you have your mind in the correct place and everything lined up as it should be.
I wish you the best in the coming trial.
There are squirrels juggling knives in my head

Adamm0621

#37
June 02, 2011, 11:59:20 AM
The definition of Irony:

"When my divorce is going to cost less than the new gun that I want to purchase."

I guess it wouldn't be cheaper to just shoot her after all. [roll]
2010 Monster 696 Dark

VisceralReaction

#38
June 02, 2011, 01:54:54 PM
But in the long run................  ;)
There are squirrels juggling knives in my head

Monsterlover

#39
June 02, 2011, 02:04:30 PM
[laugh]
"The Vincent was like a bullet that went straight; the Ducati is like the magic bullet in Dallas that went sideways and hit JFK and the Governor of Texas at the same time."--HST    **"A man who works with his hands is a laborer.  A man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman.  A man who works with his hands, brains, and heart is an artist."  -Louis Nizer**

RAT900

#40
June 02, 2011, 02:16:43 PM
Quote from: VisceralReaction on June 02, 2011, 01:54:54 PM
But in the long run................  ;)

oh don't get me started.....<laughing>.....

I went 11 years....you went 16...trying to make a feast out of crumbs and telling yourself its going to get better....right!!! it never make the beast with two backsing does...it does get worse though....make the beast with two backsing married at 23, out at 35....squandered my youth on marriage I did....

what a make the beast with two backsing lonesome nightmare....there I was rescuing her from her crappy family thinking we were going to hold hands and skip down the path of life having fun and knocking obstacles out of our way

I had confidence and balls that clank....all she had to do was have fun with me....right??

But OH NO she packed up every lousy hang-up and shitty trauma from her crap family and childhood brought them with her and saddled me with them...the make the beast with two backsing nerve...

I left more make the beast with two backsing cum in the shower as a married man... than I ever did as a teenager alone....I am surprised the make the beast with two backsing claw foot bath tub didn't get pregnant

kept telling myself she would "come around" and "things would get better"....oh yeah...that someday she would realize I truly loved her and the distrust was just the noise of her family of origin....

what an exercise in futility that was......

but after a few years of trying to demonstrate I wasn't her like her father...well....I threw in the towel.....and things did get better ...WHY?

because I started make the beast with two backsing every woman I could get to look at me after consuming Conehead quantities of Bourbon daily

Boy was that divorce ever nasty...all the make the beast with two backsing energy she couldn't put into making the marriage a go....wow it was all stored up and waiting for the divorce

what a bag o shit she was....and the worst of it all is "I picked her"



I was looking for a partner...she was looking for a hiding place from her family
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SacDuc

#41
June 02, 2011, 02:18:53 PM
Quote from: RAT900 on June 01, 2011, 03:37:46 PM


don't go there...rub one out in your hand if you have to...or a dozen.....make the beast with two backs her mom . . .



Rat is right. Even when slightly edited.


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RAT900

#42
June 02, 2011, 02:34:03 PM
Oh God Sac....10,0000 thank you's!!!


I am crying  [laugh]
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fastwin

#43
June 02, 2011, 07:03:05 PM Last Edit: June 02, 2011, 07:05:11 PM by fastwin
This thread is a good one. [thumbsup] I was married 20 years to a make the beast with two backsing psycho and spent two and a half years in court banging my head against the wall and we had NO KIDS!! Still sounds like RAT got the shit but ended up on top of the heap in the end. Glad it was all worth it for the kiddos! As it should be. I'm sure there are several Texas state laws preventing from ever having kids! [laugh] It's amazing how well my current wife and her ex-hubby get along. He's actually a hell of a nice guy and he and I get along great. Weird as it sounds his current wife and my wife (he's ex) also get along really well and have gone on several all girl road trips with mutual friends! Believe me I have seen the total opposite with friends and their exes. I am really lucky to be in the relationship I am in and that the exes get along so well. It pays HUGE dividends for my step son. Then again he is kinda screwed... he's got four parents working in harmony all over his ass! He can't get away with shit! [laugh] [thumbsup]
I plan to list the Federal Gov't. as a dependent on my next 1040 tax filing!

I have flying honey badgers and I'm not afraid to use them!

The fact that flame throwers exist is proof that someone somewhere said "I'd sure like to set those people over there on fire but I'm just not close enough to get the job done."

CONFIDENCE: the feeling you have right before you understand the situation.

Adamm0621

#44
June 03, 2011, 12:25:12 AM
Quote from: Adamm0621 on June 02, 2011, 11:59:20 AM
The definition of Irony:

"When my divorce is going to cost less than the new gun that I want to purchase."

I guess it wouldn't be cheaper to just shoot her after all. [roll]

It turns out that my quote wasn't received quite as well on Facebook... Some people have no sense of humor.
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