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Author Topic: whores! - And not the good kind.  (Read 10178 times)
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« on: May 23, 2008, 07:49:31 PM »
I must have 'shit on me' written on my back or something. Perhaps I did something in a former life and Karma is kicking my ass.
I just confirmed, 1 week short of our 1 year anniversary, that my 2nd wife is make the beast with two backsing around, and has been for probably 3 months. So that's 2 wifes out of 2 that have whored around.
A 1 time thing...hey...I might be able to let that slide. but seriously to carry on like everything is normal. I just don't get it.  The 1st wife wasn't really a surprise, but this one.  I mean I'm really stunned. Until I finally cornered her, there was a good portion of me that really didn't believe that she would do it. but there it is.

I'm a nice guy. Pretty thoughtful and considerate. Don't get angry. just easy going and like to have fun. We dated for probably 4 years and it was great.
I need a picture of me in the Fail thread I guess.

The 'funny' part is, a good friend and coworker of mine found out 2 months before he was going to be married that his fiance had been make the beast with two backsign someone else for months, all the while making wedding arrangements. Well my wife had no shortage of bad things to say about her, and how he should never go back to her etc. How does one make a 180 like that?

Well just venting. The first wife I was bothered more financially than anything. But this is a kick in the nuts. My guts haven't been right since.
As a disclosure. yeah i've cheated on girlfriends. usually with x gf's, but whatever. once you're married tho, that shits sposed to change, right? maybe that's my karma!

em, you do all think that i shouldn't try to keep it alive right?
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« Reply #1 on: May 23, 2008, 08:12:15 PM »
Quote from: vwboomer on May 23, 2008, 07:49:31 PM
em, you do all think that i shouldn't try to keep it alive right?

You can try, but your relationship will never be the same again.

Sorry this happened to you, that sucks big time.
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« Reply #2 on: May 23, 2008, 08:22:20 PM »
get out!!
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« Reply #3 on: May 23, 2008, 10:08:36 PM »
you never know what a girl will do. Did you meet that douche bag? Do you know why she was cheating on you? Did you guys talk about it?

All i can tell you is, its going to be hard, some women realize what they've done, and they change. others will never. Its your decision  on what you want in the end. but sorry to hear that man.

Is it too early to make jokes?

give us some names and some social security numbers, and we'll take care of her and her friend. Lifes make the beast with two backsed up.
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« Reply #4 on: May 23, 2008, 10:47:16 PM »
dude. that sucks...  Undecided
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« Reply #5 on: May 23, 2008, 10:51:07 PM »
Sorry man.
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« Reply #6 on: May 23, 2008, 11:52:23 PM »

Geez that sucks.
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« Reply #7 on: May 24, 2008, 01:35:03 AM »
I feel your pain...  Sad

Of course, no one can tell you what to do. It's your choice, your decision.
Talk to the wife, See what feels right.
Just curious- did y'all have specific agreements up front? Some couples have 50 mile rules, or 500 miles, or Top 10 Movie stars, or whatever, but if the 2 of you agreed to exclusivity, it might be difficult (but not impossible) to move forward together.
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« Reply #8 on: May 24, 2008, 03:18:46 AM »
Sucks man.
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« Reply #9 on: May 24, 2008, 05:02:22 AM »
Sorry dude.

End it, end it now. The person you married doesn't exist.
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« Reply #10 on: May 24, 2008, 05:07:14 AM »
That does suck.

From experience, let me give you this advice:

RUN AWAY, RUN AWAY!!!
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« Reply #11 on: May 24, 2008, 06:07:19 AM »
this is sucky news Sad

how did you find out?
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« Reply #12 on: May 24, 2008, 06:16:51 AM »
sorry man, you need to leave her and move on.


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« Reply #13 on: May 24, 2008, 06:31:58 AM »
I can't imagine how you must feel.  Sorry, dude.

Get the big D, then take a vacation to South America.
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« Reply #14 on: May 24, 2008, 06:37:10 AM »
sorry to hear this, man.

I won't give you advice, given I don't know you, or the situation at all.

I will say, though, that if you do leave, a year from now, you'll feel a whole lot better than you do now.

Good luck
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