Broke up with the GF

[Piller]

I had a big fight with the girlfriend.  Long story short, I locked her out and her cousin called the cops.  She came back with them, and it ended with me going to stay at my sister's for the night and she was going to stay at the apartment.  They didn't want me to come back until the next day when things had cooled down.  So I started driving to my sisters and saw from my cell that she was responding to craigslist personal ads asking guys to come over with some pot.  I put a program on her iphone that sends me any txts or emails she gets (since she got me fired behind my back, I wanted to be privy to anything else going on).  The program doesn't always catch everything though.  I could see she sent the guy a couple texts, but seemed to end it when he said he didn't have any pot.  I turned the car around anyway, because why the hell should I be the one to have to go stay somewhere while she stays home and screws some guy?  I called the police back and they came to talk to me outside the apartment.  I explained what she was doing, and gave them a better idea of what's been going on.  The cop said I should put all her stuff out the first chance I get, because she could get a false restraining order and I'd have to leave and pay rent while she stayed there for 3 months.  It ended with me deciding to go back to my sister's because it seemed like she quit emailing the craigslist people, and must have just went to sleep.

So I started heading back and I got a txt from her that someone just gave her some good advice.  I also noticed none of the texts she sent to me showed up on the program.  I just had to know if someone was there in my house with her.  I turned around again, and went up to the back door to listen.  I heard her voice talking so I thought it was her on the phone...  but then I heard a guy's voice.  A warm feeling of rage swept over my entire body.   I barged in and there was some dude with a six pack sitting at the kitchen table with her.  She was looking down smiling the whole time.  

Can you make the beast with two backsing imagine?  I said to the guy “I want you to leave, this is my home”.  I walked him out the front door.  I walked back to the kitchen and there she was smiling.  I asked her for her key.  She said she didn't know where it was.  I eventually found it and took it along with the cell phone I let her use.  I asked her to leave and she refused.  She said I was going to be arrested because the cop said he would lock me up if I came back.  I told her I didn't care, and I physically picked her up and started dragging her out the door.  She said she was going to make sure she would have bruises to show the cops.  She even grabbed a butcher knife at one point, presumably to incite a fight.   After much struggling I eventually got her out.

I heard nothing from her or the police until maybe 2 hours later.  They called me and said she went to Walgreens to use the payphone to try and get me put in jail, but they arrested her instead for disturbing the peace.  They said she'll be out sometime the next day - at least there was something good that happened that night.  I spent from 2am to 7am moving every bit of her stuff out to the curb.  I saw people taking stuff of hers at one point during the next day, so I called the police again and asked if I'm responsible and if I would get in trouble.  He said there's nothing legally wrong at all, and if she sued me I would probably win since she was arrested.  So by the time she arrived with her 60yr old ex boyfriend, most of her stuff was gone.  Most of her clothes and shoes, end tables, 6 nice dining room chairs, two nice desks, a dresser, lots of kids toys (I felt bad about that â€" but I had to have all of her stuff out according to the cop).  

So that should be the end of this relationship.  It may sound very harsh that I put all her stuff out, and I almost feel bad â€" but some things I haven't mentioned yet is that she cheated on me with the 60yr old like 5 times.  She also screwed my boss after she got me fired.  Yes, it's clear I should have left a long time ago, but it's hard to say no to a very attractive 20 year old when you're 33.  I haven't been in a relationship since the whole nun fiasco.  So really it's been 5 years since I've been in a relationship I've wanted to be in.  I've left girls for a hell of a lot less than what she's done to me, I was desperate, and the sex was good.

I drove the monster 3 hours away to my friend's house in the rain and 40 degree weather, which is where I'm at now.  

Another crazy story to add to my book.  

I'm bummed out.   My apartment is totally empty, I lost my 60k/yr job, and the best friend who was my boss.  The girlfriend has done horrible things to me, but for some odd reason she also happened to be the most affectionate that I've ever had.

It's a lot to take in.

[Piller]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA . . . *gasp* . . . HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

Whew. That's funny.

Why is that funny?  I never know with you....

[Oldfisti]

 


Good riddance.

[teddy037.2]

wow...

[il d00d]

Good job... now keep her out.

On a side note, is there any way we can implement a rule where Sac and Piller can both post to the board, but not in the same thread?  Nothing against either of you, but it seems to be a case of you guys mixing like oil and whatever causes oil to explode.  Again, you're both fine gents in your own way, just not so fine in successive posts...

[Piller]

Good job... now keep her out.

On a side note, is there any way we can implement a rule where Sac and Piller can both post to the board, but not in the same thread?  Nothing against either of you, but it seems to be a case of you guys mixing like oil and whatever causes oil to explode.  Again, you're both fine gents in your own way, just not so fine in successive posts...

I would like to know where his animosity for me comes from.

[il d00d]

I'm not taking sides, just offering an objective observation...

[Popeye the Sailor]

I would like to know where his animosity for me comes from.

Uh, most likely the dog thread man.

[Piller]

It goes back further I think.  (besides, the dog was for the GF - the trifling ho didn't want to take care of it)

[hbliam]

You need professional help.

[Goat_Herder]

I totally missed out on responding to the dog adoption thread.  Let's see how fast this one gets locked up.  LOL

[Goat_Herder]

BTW, sorry to hear about your GF, Pillar.  It seems like drama just follows you around

[Piller]

case in point is this thread.

but, thanks.  I'm pretty bummed out.

[He Man]

I dont feel sorry for you. Im glad it took all this shit for you to finnaly throw the curb at her.

Its one thing if the sex is good and you dont really care about her. just keep your self protected. But if you do, it makes it harder. but i guess its a difference of how people view things. i would of sent her packing via express a long time ago.

CONGRATS.

[Ddan]

Piller, not to be an ass, but it's not that drama follows you. For whatever reason you throw yourself into the sketchiest of situations, repeatedly, and then blame everyone around you when the shit is in the fan.  According to your tales, you've taken steps to pull yourself up from the mire.  It's not time to stop yet.