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So my wife and I are splitting up

Started by Monsterlover, June 27, 2008, 07:21:02 PM

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Manny

#60
July 02, 2008, 08:10:51 PM
Sorry to hear this. It's good that you guys intend to keep it civil.

My recent experience taught me this: Even though you're being amicable, after she moves out and all the stuff is divided up, take a good long break from each other. No talking, no bootie calls, no "dinner just to catch up."

If you need to travel, I've got a couch in Denver that you're welcome to crash on.  :)

Monsterlover

#61
July 03, 2008, 08:05:58 AM
Quote from: Grio on July 02, 2008, 10:17:44 AM
Sorry to hear...sounds like after a time that things will be OK for both of you.

I'd rather have the FULL man and feel like he and I were both keeping an aggreement instead of our sex life becoming a one sided thing- you know what I mean? 

I don't get it - need some clarification.

Can you define what you mean by "full man"  You're saying you'd rather have him be "unsnipped?"  Or you're saying you'd rather not know about it until later on?
"The Vincent was like a bullet that went straight; the Ducati is like the magic bullet in Dallas that went sideways and hit JFK and the Governor of Texas at the same time."--HST    **"A man who works with his hands is a laborer.  A man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman.  A man who works with his hands, brains, and heart is an artist."  -Louis Nizer**

Grio

#62
July 03, 2008, 08:52:21 AM
Perhaps I was babbling a bit, or perhaps it's just my luck that on a first date, I've had more then a few men start talking about the condition of his plumbing.  I've been left thinking..."jeez...I didn't really know if we were headed there or not".  That's a turn off. 
I can think of at least three examples where the information was presented in a "I have protected myself" way, not a "I made a personal decision" way.  It felt almost hostile.
So, blah, blah blah...perhaps I'm restating the obvious cuz I've run across some doosies of weird behavior from the dating pool. 

And yes, by full man, I mean unsnipped.  To me, there is just a little more chance to bond if your concious decision involves your partner.  As others have said, if your snipped, it doesn't really matter what you do.

All and all, a tremendous number of men have had vasectomies.  A tremendous  number of men have had children.  Some have had both ;)  I only hope that the condition is grounded in personal choice and not feeling the victim of circumstance, cuz it sure comes out to the other party when it's the other way around.
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Monsterlover

#63
July 03, 2008, 08:54:38 AM
[thumbup]

I get it.
"The Vincent was like a bullet that went straight; the Ducati is like the magic bullet in Dallas that went sideways and hit JFK and the Governor of Texas at the same time."--HST    **"A man who works with his hands is a laborer.  A man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman.  A man who works with his hands, brains, and heart is an artist."  -Louis Nizer**

Buckethead

#64
July 03, 2008, 12:25:17 PM
There are other reasons not to tell a girl you've had a vasectomy.
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Monsterlover

#65
July 03, 2008, 01:04:33 PM
Ive read that before.

Part of me feels bad for her, most of me loves it [evil]
"The Vincent was like a bullet that went straight; the Ducati is like the magic bullet in Dallas that went sideways and hit JFK and the Governor of Texas at the same time."--HST    **"A man who works with his hands is a laborer.  A man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman.  A man who works with his hands, brains, and heart is an artist."  -Louis Nizer**

c_rex

#66
July 03, 2008, 10:54:21 PM
Quote from: Monsterlover on July 03, 2008, 01:04:33 PM
Part of me feels bad for her, most of me loves it [evil]


[thumbsup]
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Ducatista

#67
July 05, 2008, 08:15:08 AM
I haven't read through the 5 pages of replies yet, but I can say, life does get better.  It may not get better right away, but it will soon.  I was married at 21 and divorced at 24.  He was my first serious boyfriend.  I'm sure you can imagine how intimidating it was to be 24-25 and suddenly thrown out into the wilderness of the DC meat market.  I just spent a few years happily single and took my time. 

Make sure that you brace yourself, though.  She may be amicable now, but you have no idea how she will feel in 6 months when it comes to actually signing that paper.  She may change her mind and decide to milk you for all she can.  This is happening to one of my close friends right now.  Everything started off fine, but 4 months later, she decided she wanted a lot more than she agreed to in the beginning.  It's really sad. 

Best of luck to you.  It sounds like a really difficult situation to be in.  I hope all goes as smoothly as possible for you.
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Monsterlover

#68
July 07, 2008, 10:16:37 AM
So I quit wearing my wedding ring.

Feels really strange without it.

My thumb keeps bending in to mess with it, but there's nothing there.
"The Vincent was like a bullet that went straight; the Ducati is like the magic bullet in Dallas that went sideways and hit JFK and the Governor of Texas at the same time."--HST    **"A man who works with his hands is a laborer.  A man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman.  A man who works with his hands, brains, and heart is an artist."  -Louis Nizer**

TiNi

#69
July 07, 2008, 10:20:54 AM
Quote from: Monsterlover on July 07, 2008, 10:16:37 AM
So I quit wearing my wedding ring.

Feels really strange without it.

My thumb keeps bending in to mess with it, but there's nothing there.

the mark it left on your finger will go away... in time  :)

Monsterlover

#70
July 07, 2008, 11:41:41 AM
;)

Indeed
"The Vincent was like a bullet that went straight; the Ducati is like the magic bullet in Dallas that went sideways and hit JFK and the Governor of Texas at the same time."--HST    **"A man who works with his hands is a laborer.  A man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman.  A man who works with his hands, brains, and heart is an artist."  -Louis Nizer**

Max LeanAngle

#71
July 07, 2008, 02:51:18 PM


                  Check your neck--no Ball and Chain mark...ahhhh
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Monsterlover

#72
July 07, 2008, 03:43:02 PM
There wasn't one there to begin with.

I cannot be contained
"The Vincent was like a bullet that went straight; the Ducati is like the magic bullet in Dallas that went sideways and hit JFK and the Governor of Texas at the same time."--HST    **"A man who works with his hands is a laborer.  A man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman.  A man who works with his hands, brains, and heart is an artist."  -Louis Nizer**

Grampa

#73
July 07, 2008, 03:56:10 PM
Gaspar, Melchior and Balthasar kicked me out of the band..... they said I didnt fit the image they were trying to project. 

So I went solo.  -Me

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desmopr

#74
July 07, 2008, 05:43:50 PM
^^^ That's really make the beast with two backsed up and sad  :-[
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